David Herbert Lawrence

selection. You just wouldn't let the wrong sort of fellow touch you.'

She thought of Michaelis! He was absolutely Clifford's idea of the

wrong sort of fellow.

`But men and women may have different feelings about the wrong sort of

fellow,' she said.

`No,' he replied. `You care for me. I don't believe you would ever care

for a man who was purely antipathetic to me. Your rhythm wouldn't let you.'

She was silent. Logic might be unanswerable because it was so

absolutely wrong.

`And should you expect me to tell you?' she asked, glancing up at him

almost furtively.

`Not at all, I'd better not know...But you do agree with me, don't you,

that the casual sex thing is nothing, compared to the long life lived

together? Don't you think one can just subordinate the sex thing to the

necessities of a long life? Just use it, since that's what we're driven to?

After all, do these temporary excitements matter? Isn't the whole problem of

life the slow building up of an integral personality, through the years?

living an integrated life? There's no point in a disintegrated life. If lack

of sex is going to disintegrate you, then go out and have a love-affair. If

lack of a child is going to disintegrate you, then have a child if you

possibly can. But only do these things so that you have an integrated life,

that makes a long harmonious thing. And you and I can do that

together...don't you think?...if we adapt ourselves to the necessities, and

at the same time weave the adaptation together into a piece with our

steadily-lived life. Don't you agree?'

Connie was a little overwhelmed by his words. She knew he was right

theoretically. But when she actually touched her steadily-lived life with

him she...hesitated. Was it actually her destiny to go on weaving herself

into his life all the rest of her life? Nothing else?

Was it just that? She was to be content to weave a steady life with

him, all one fabric, but perhaps brocaded with the occasional flower of an

adventure. But how could she know what she would feel next year? How could

one ever know? How could one say Yes? for years and years? The little yes,

gone on a breath! Why should one be pinned down by that butterfly word? Of

course it had to flutter away and be gone, to be followed by other yes's and

no's! Like the straying of butterflies.

`I think you're right, Clifford. And as far as I can see I agree with

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